Sunday, April 13, 2008 10:48 PM Y
Some people like being alone; others are happiest when they are with a crowd of people. Which do you prefer?
They are advantages and disadvantages if being alone and staying getting within a crowd of people. Most people would escape from loneliness as it is a very terrible feeling of being alone. Imagine yourself without any friends, how would life be? No one to through thick and thin with you.
In my opinion, I prefer to be with a crowd of people, especially with my closest friends. The most enjoyable times are when we can go out to catch a movie or cycling in a group. Spending time at the seaside with a group of friends, sharing about each other’s lives is also one of most enjoyable times. That brings all of us closer and builds the bond with one another. Having friends gives me the opportunity to express my inner most feelings or thoughts, which sometimes we cannot share our parents.
When we are in a group, we tend to create a lot of noise and it would attract attention. We will engage ourselves in conversation and when we hit an interesting topic, we should get so excited that we will laugh and talk loudly. Daring one another in a group will tend to lead us to commit wrong things
Some people choose to stay alone as they may have a phobia of being in a crowd due to bad experiences. Some may be born naturally and therefore cannot communicate with people. It is called autistics. When I am hurt or angry, I admit that I would run away from people and chose to be alone. Being alone calms me rather than venting my temper or my friends. However after some time, I come to realize that keeping things to myself rarely brings a solution. In the end, I would consult someone, a best friend, relative or parent to help me out of the mess which I put myself in.
After all, with al my reasons, I still prefer to spend my time in a crowd where we can share joy and laughter. One way or another, other people may choose to be alone as they enjoy better. Lives would me meaningful where we can share happiness and woe within one another.
